Dealing With a Narcissist

Narcissism versus selfishness. In this video, we are joined by our good friend Quentin Hafner, LMFT, who discusses how to identify if someone is a true Narcissist or if they are just extremely selfish. He walks us through how to set up healthy boundaries to protect yourself and your marriage from their selfishness. The big takeaway was understanding that we all have some varying degrees of self-centeredness, but to the degree that these traits show up in marriage is the exact same degree that these traits will erode trust and ultimately the relationship. 

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What you’ll learn in the full video

  • The difference between a narcissist and a selfish spouse
  • The behaviors, qualities and habits a narcissist has and how you can tell if your spouse is one
  • What you can do if you’re married to a spouse who is extremely selfish or narcissistic

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