To be honest, I think most marriage books aren’t very good. Now hear me out before you judge me…
When my marriage was falling apart and I had a ton of resentment towards my husband, I read any marriage and self help book I could get my hands on and you know what? I noticed that either the information was watered down or a bit too clinical/psychology for my taste. Of course this lead us to eventually start Marriage365, but one thing I will never do is point couples in a direction that will lead them nowhere. I don’t want you wasting your precious time and money on resources that DO NOT work. PERIOD.
These books, when put into practice, will change the way you communicate, problem solve, respond to your spouse, and even the way you make decisions on who to love.
My Favorite Marriage Books
365 CONNECTING QUESTIONS FOR COUPLES (updated & revised) by Casey & Meygan Caston (that’s us!)
Yes, we are the authors and we self-published our book back in 2018 and have sold over 100,000 copies to 72 countries. This book is simple yet powerful at the same time. We give you a question to ask each other every day for an entire year about topics like sex and intimacy, communication, conflict, trust, your childhood, boundaries, friendships, money and tons of fun questions. We know that couples who make the time each day to connect emotionally have a more satisfying marriage. Husbands typically like this book because they want to connect with their wife but they just don’t know where to start and this gives them the confidence to engage with their wife. Back in 2024, Penguin Random House helped us revise and update this book which is now available everywhere books are sold and it continues to be a top seller. *Great for dating, engaged and married couples. Get your copy here.
THE 5 LOVE LANGUAGES by Gary Chapman
An easy read and very practical for any couple in any stage of your marriage. Dr. Chapman does an incredible job at explaining how we all like to give and receive love in different ways and to find your love language so you can express your love the way your spouse wants to be loved. They even have a quiz online that you can take! This is also great for engaged couples as well. Get your copy here.
THE MINDFUL MARRIAGE by Ron Deal
What I appreciate about this book is that it can be read on your own or with your spouse. It focuses on your pain cycle and teaches you how to self regulate your emotions so that you can have more balance and move into your peace cycle. We use the pain and peace method in our coaching because it works and is easy to digest. Ron and his wife has experienced tremendous loss and pain in their own marriage and teach you everything they have used to heal their own marriage. Get your copy here.
DARING GREATLY by Brené Brown
Having lunch with Brené Brown is on my bucket list, but setting that aside, she really is a game changer for most people once you begin reading her books. Yes, plural – she has tons and all of them are excellent. But if I had to pick one to start with, I’d recommend Daring Greatly. The tag line for the book reads How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent and Lead. Truly a must-read for anyone who is tired of living on auto-pilot and wants to take their life to the next level. Get your copy here.
WANTING SEX AGAIN by Laurie J. Watson
Sex is one of those topics where there is a lot of information available but not a lot of quality information for couples, which makes it confusing. Laurie is our go-to sex therapist who just knows how to keep it real and doesn’t make you feel uncomfortable. This book took our sex life to a whole new level. Warning, do not leave this book on your coffee table while having guests over. Yes, we’re speaking from experience. Get your copy here.
10 STUPID THINGS COUPLES DO TO MESS UP THEIR RELATIONSHIPS by Dr. Laura Schlessinger
Love her or hate her, it doesn’t even matter. This book speaks truth in a very blunt and honest way. I am one of those people that like to learn by others mistakes and then does everything opposite so I don’t completely mess my life up. If you’re similar to me, you will love this book. Dr. Laura knows all about the mistakes people make and then end up living a life of regret. Stay far away from these stupid things and you’ll be good to go! Get your copy here.
If you want to make a better marriage, it starts with making a better you and educating yourself is a great way to make a better and healthier you.
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Written by Meygan Caston
Meygan Caston is the co-founder of Marriage365 and lives in Orange County California with her husband Casey and their two children. She loves the beach, dance parties, writing, spa days, and helping couples connect in their marriage. Her life-long dream is to walk the Camino, have lunch with Brené Brown and get on The Price is Right.
