As someone deeply invested in marriage and family, I’m always intrigued by what studies, culture, and history reveal about relationships. Understanding the statistics behind marriage offers valuable insights into its challenges and rewards. Some of these findings made me reflect on my own habits and decisions. Let’s dive into 8 jaw dropping marriage statistics every couple should know!
1. Communication is Key: 65% of Divorces Are Due to Communication Issues
Poor communication is the leading cause of marital breakdowns. Without effective tools and techniques, conversations often escalate into arguments, leaving spouses feeling unseen, misunderstood, and unvalidated. On the other hand, couples who prioritize open, honest dialogue experience healthier, more fulfilling relationships.
Pro Tip: Develop communication skills by exploring tools and exercises designed for couples.
2. Couples Who Regularly Date Each Other Are 3.5 Times Happier
Setting aside intentional time for dates can strengthen emotional bonds and keep the romance alive. Even simple activities like a coffee date or a walk together can make a big difference.
Looking for ideas? Check out our list of creative DATE NIGHT IDEAS to keep the spark alive.
3. Porn Consumption Is Linked to Increased Loneliness in Marriage
Statistics show that 69% of men and 40% of women view porn annually. Research reveals that couples who avoid pornography report higher relationship quality across the board. Furthermore, women in relationships with men who consume porn often report lower self-esteem, reduced relationship satisfaction, and diminished sexual fulfillment.
Bottom line: Pornography can harm marriages in more ways than one.
4. Happy Marriages Lead to Increased Workplace Productivity
Did you know that marital hardships cost American businesses approximately $6 billion annually due to decreased worker productivity? Conversely, employees in thriving marriages contribute positively to their company’s bottom line.
Takeaway: A happy marriage doesn’t just benefit you—it can also boost your career.
5. Practicing Self-Care Benefits You and Your Marriage
Self-care isn’t selfish—it’s essential. Studies show that 64% of people say self-care boosts their confidence, 67% report increased productivity, and 71% say it enhances happiness. Healthier individuals create healthier marriages.
Start here: Ask yourself these 18 SELF-CARE QUESTIONS to prioritize your well-being.
6. Debt Negatively Impacts Marital Stress
Couples with consumer debt—averaging $30,000—are more likely to argue about money. In fact, 41% of couples with debt say finances are their biggest source of conflict. By comparison, only 25% of debt-free couples argue about money, and it doesn’t even make their top five list of conflicts.
Inspiration: Learn how we PAID OFF OVER $200,000 IN DEBT and strengthened our marriage in the process.
7. Empty Nesters Are Divorcing at Higher Rates
The divorce rate for couples over 50 has doubled, and for those over 64, it has tripled in the past generation. Many empty nesters, having prioritized a child-centered marriage, find they’ve grown apart after their kids leave home.
Solution: Make time to nurture your marriage at every stage of life to avoid falling out of love.
8. Trust Is the Most Important Element of Marriage
In a poll of over 10,000 members of our Marriage365 community, 51% identified trust as the most critical element of a successful marriage. Love (28%) and communication (8%) followed. Trust serves as the foundation of a healthy relationship, ensuring stability and security.
Ask yourself: How can I build and maintain trust in my marriage?
Final Thoughts: Strengthen Your Marriage with Awareness
Understanding these marriage statistics every couple should know can help you make informed decisions about your relationship. From improving communication to practicing self-care and addressing financial stress, small changes can lead to big improvements.
Remember, a thriving marriage doesn’t happen by accident—it requires intention, effort, and commitment.
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Written by Meygan Caston
Meygan Caston is the co-founder of Marriage365 and lives in sunny Southern California with her husband Casey, their two children, and dog Hobie. She loves her family, the beach, writing, spa days, and helping couples connect in their marriage. Her life long dream is to live with the Amish for a month, walk the Camino, and have lunch with Brené Brown.
