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Signs Your Therapist Isn’t a Good Fit
Read MoreSeeing a therapist… is an important part of mental health, growth, self-awareness, and getting through painful and challenging life experiences. However, if you’ve never been to therapy before, or are still fairly new to the process, it might feel overwhelming… and that’s okay! We’re here to help. The best way to help you know if …
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How To Recognize Abuse
ABUSE. A topic so painful to lean into that most people end up avoiding it altogether. Abuse comes in several different forms and all of them are damaging and have the potential to produce short and/or long-term effects. It has such shock value that when it is brought up in conversation, most people instantly enter …
How to Fix a Marriage After Infidelity
When it comes to fixing a marriage after infidelity… …it is important to first and foremost make sure you’re both on the same page with this ONE truth before you do absolutely anything else: Forgiveness is one-sided. Reconciliation is two-sided. Before you ever attempt to put a whole lot of effort into healing your marriage …
Phrases to Never, Ever Say to Your Spouse!
Our words are powerful aren’t they? The words we speak can either bring life and connection to the relationship, or they can destroy trust and cause hurt feelings. Words have real consequences. They affect how people perceive us, they affect how people respond to us, and they ultimately affect the quality of our marriage. While …
Anger Can be an Opportunity, Not an Obstacle
Anger doesn’t have to be negative, but oftentimes we allow it to be so. At the heart of anger there is a rallying cry inside of us that is screaming “THIS IS UNFAIR”, and instead of channeling it into positive action, we channel it into a negative ball of energy that reinforces our negative self-talk… …
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Discovering Infidelity in Your Marriage
I remember the night I finally had proof of the affair. I had suspicions for months but nothing to stand on. And then one night I did. Like a train, it hit me square in the chest, knocking me straight off my feet and flat onto my back. I sat there on the kitchen floor, …
6 Steps To Fighting Fair
Some say, “all is fair in love and war” – but in my opinion, that actually isn’t true. If you really sit down and think about it, when it comes to love, there is nothing fair at all about fighting fair; there’s nothing fair about taking off your boxing gloves, swallowing your pride, and trying …
8 Red Flags That It Really Might Be Too Late
I’ve got to shoot straight with you: This is a painful blog for me to write, because I want to believe that there is hope for every single marriage — that no matter what happens, love can be strong enough to overcome anything. I don’t want to acknowledge the truth that a marriage could …
Meygan and I both admit that there have been many times we’ve made excuses for our family’s toxic behavior because… well, they’re family. We’ve minimized the inappropriate comments, we’ve made excuses for the constant gossip, and we’ve allowed certain family members to get away with extremely unhealthy behavior far too long. The wounds run deep in our hearts and …
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How to Stay in Love During Hard Times
Have you ever been in a season where you feel like the “light at the end of the tunnel” will never come and like you and your spouse might be in the dark forever? There are so many seasons of “waiting” that a couple can go through, but several would include: job changes, infertility, affair recovery, postpartum depression, …